Get your mind right when it comes to starting a new fitness program. You can find part 1 of this topic here.
Here’s the next chapter in the How To Start A Fitness Program series which may also work for you called mind over matter. One of the biggest and main things I had to do was to get my mind in the place that this was going to be a lifestyle change.
The statement above is very true – your body won’t take you where your mind won’t go. We control how we feel, respond and act based on what we are thinking mentally.
So it only makes sense that a mindful change is in order when starting up a new lifestyle and habit in your life. Fitness is part of my lifestyle now. Fitness isn’t a fad, phase or a short-term goal for a temporary gain (i.e. looking good for a beach vacation coming up).
This lifestyle is simply my life. It took a while to get here though. I stumbled a bit. I started and then stopped and then started again.
Here are some ways you can begin to “get your mind right” so you too can make this a positive lifestyle change:
Write it down
Write down your long-term and short term goals and rewards. Yes, we are not puppies but a little incentive never hurt. And not food rewards either. This will get you concentrating on where it is you want to go on this fitness journey.
Conquer the fear of fitness
If you join a gym, focus on YOU and not on everyone else around you thinking they are looking at you. Trust me, especially the men, they are looking at themselves in the mirror admiring their own physique. BUT with that said I know it still isn’t easy because it may be a new environment for some of you.
Get with a trainer most gyms offer new members and have them show you how to use all of the equipment with proper form. That will build your confidence next time. Also join some group classes. That will further help. If all else fails – try and locate a female-only gym.
Don’t believe the hype
Learn the truth about fitness and nutrition and don’t rely on your own ideas of what is healthy. You may or may not be right and sabotaging your own progress.
Did you know 1, 8 oz glass of orange juice (not from concentrate) can have as much as or MORE sugar than a 12 oz can of Coca Cola? Get with a professional to find out how to eat clean and the modifications you need to make.
That way all of your hard work won’t go down the drain because you are working out but eating all wrong. And vice versa – learn the proper form and purpose of each exercise and don’t rely on your own thinking or opinion.
Accept it
Accept where you are – at the beginning of your journey and the fact you may not be able to finish everything. This is where you are starting, not where you will stay so keep trying and you will get better, TRUST ME! This workout thing will have you feeling uncomfortable. That extra rep will feel impossible to do. Focus, concentrate and push through. You can do it.
Love yourself
First and foremost realize you are doing this so you can be an even better and healthy you. If you don’t love yourself then it doesn’t matter what you do – you will never be happy with the results. Take good care of yourself and remember if you don’t take care of you, no one else will. You have to make yourself a priority in order to be there for your family and friends so take the time, don’t feel guilty about it. Your family will appreciate you for it.
And lastly, as my coach always says “WIN THE MENTAL BATTLE”. Oh yeah…..there’s a battle going on. Each and every day in fact.
You won’t want to get out of bed, you will say this is stupid I’m going home, you will feel slower and weaker than you ever have, you will get discouraged, you will feel defeated and you won’t want to be doing what you are doing….but do it anyway.
I just shared all of the things I have thought and felt over the past two months yet I did it anyway. That is winning the mental battle. When you feel weak or as if you can’t do another rep and you focus and push through – that’s winning the mental battle.
When you feel tired yet you continue with your cardio – that’s also winning the mental battle.
It’s all mind over matter.
Stay well and leave a comment on how you are getting your mind right with your fitness journey.
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8 Replies to "A Great Way To Start A Fitness Program"
Deborah
Twitter: deborahbrooks14
May 13, 2014 (8:21 am)
#5 is definitely the first step. You have to love your body and then find out what it is capable of and go from there.
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Amanda H May 14, 2014 (8:44 am)
Love this! We often overlook the mental aspect of fitness. Thanks for sharing and for hosting the #wowlinkup 🙂
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Diatta
Twitter: DSTPRL
May 14, 2014 (9:58 am)
Thank you for joining every week.
The Frugal Exerciser
Twitter: Laurend1985
May 14, 2014 (10:22 am)
I want to share your post with a couple of my clients. They are new to exercise and have a long way to go. I will also pin this piece. Visiting from the #wowlinkup
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Michele
Twitter: apaceofbalance
May 16, 2014 (4:25 pm)
YES, YES to all especially #4 and 5! Acceptance is key. We have to hold ourselves accountable for where we are and how we got there before we think about where to go. It really is all mental! #wowlinkup
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jill conyers
Twitter: jillconyers
May 16, 2014 (7:59 pm)
Great tips! The mental battle is the hardest and the most important!
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